Feels like I haven't write in like...ages?? haha *tipu, padahal baru berapa hari lepas ko update*
Really? *raised eyebrow*
Ha-ha. Anyway, there's a lot of things here in my mind, my heart and my soul. Cewahh..! Yeah, plenty that I could not spill them out in order to take care of some hearts *blerghhh, my heart? ade orang kesah?* Haha. Joking joking. Some might find this page offensive later on if I still continue doing this. ;p
I'm writing here after reading a blog of a houseman, if I'm not mistaken. Her blog was linked to a facebook account via a friend so the title grabbed my attention. *well, the titles play a role aren't they?* So since the entry was based on how long her journey of love was, I would like to get the similar sweet pleasurable journey as hers. You can tell once you've read the entry here. It was soooooo.. what eh? So like sweet ke? Nope, maybe like who-knows-who's-your-fate-is.
Erti hidup pada memberi. Berilah kasih sayang dan senyuman ikhlas untuk mereka tersenyum bahagia.
A man and woman can never be friends. Partly true, I could say. Though it might be true most of the time.
That is one of the reasons why I like to address or at least assume guys who are close to me as my big bro. I like to set that limit up so that we are aware that we have a barrier *if one of us fall in love or even both fall in love to each other*. I don't just simply acknowledge people that way you know. I have my own reason, as everything happens for a reason, right? So, that puts a wall between us so that either one of us would not really fall in love accidentally. =)
But friends can be lover. Heard plenty of these kind of cases, aren't you?
School mates? College mates? Neighbours? This kind of relationship actually happens. We actually meet, be friend, well some get into relationship then get married. It would be great and much more fun if we get to marry a primary school mate as we know him more since he was a kid, isn't it? We know his attitude *and we can actually see how had he been changed*, we know his habit, we could adapt in a more friendly way because that is the way we talk to each other back in school days.
A lover can be a friend. Partly true. Though they are cases of divorced partner or broke up couple who remain friends, they are certain that aren't.
Well it depends on how you take your lover as. Ending a relationship doesn't mean that you have to be tight enemy *translate : musuh ketat :P* hihi. Accept the fate that that is the end of your relationship, not the end of the world and move on. Like there's a saying, love come and go. Seriously, you can find another person who is wayyyy better that your ex.
But hey, to my future husband. Kalau boleh saya taknak la awak ni bekas-bekas orang dah. Sebab saya pun tak couple. ;p Tapi serious, kalau awak boleh jaga diri awak dari godaan syaitan semua tu.. lagi sweet kan wak? Tapi kalau dah TER jugak tu.. sorang je dah la ek. takyah la couple ramai sangat.
But what if we couldn't get married at all? I mean, yeah. All life long, alone.
Well, in that case... believe that Allah has give each of you a partner. Girls, you are from their ribs. Sure Allah has planned and fated you with the best. Just accept that maybe your jodoh has been taken to see Him *died, if you are so slow* and he is waiting for you in Jannah, which jannah? Wait and see and upgrade your good deeds, amar makruh nahi mungkar and ibadat before your time come.
So as we had learned in school that we have to believe in this 2nd last rukun iman, which is fated and cannot be changed, terima lah dengan penuh redha. Acceptance would be final and sweetest part of any problem in people who are patience. Beruntunglah kamu menjadi orang-orang yang sabar.
The most important thing is.. bercintalah kerana Allah. Dahulukanlah Allah dalam setiap urusan, nescaya Allah akan memudahkan urusan kita.
And say it before its too late. Better late than never, aite?
So say it like... NOW!
